Something’s been eating at me for the last month. Something someone said at my friend’s housewarming party. Just as she was leaving, Jess, who I haven’t known all that long, said “I won’t hug you, I know you don’t like it”. I know she was just trying to do the right thing — she didn’t want to invade my personal space if I didn’t like it — but it made me start thinking. It’s not true and don’t want people to think that about me. [read more]